The Wisdom Circle
Redwood City
A 6-month in-person & online program for Men wanting MORE in Love and in Life
“Be a Good Guy”…
...is what they taught you. And so you became one.
You now have your family, career, and reputation to show for it.
But when they were teaching you to be a good guy, they did not tell you that being a good guy can also leave you feeling Empty — without Purpose, Passion, Fulfillment, and Sense of Worth.
They did not tell you that being a good guy can also leave you feeling Depleted, Lonely, and Empty.
They did not tell you that you have a choice...
Be a Good Guy, or be something MORE. Experience something MORE.
Live something more.
This is NOT a call to stop being a good person.
But it is a call for those who yearn for something more.
In this confidential circle of men, you will be supported, challenged, and loved.
You will be called upon to deepen and stretch in ways you may not have experienced. You will be taught to strengthen your nervous system so you can show up more powerfully for your loved ones, your colleagues, and your community.
You will focus your purpose, deepen your most important relationships, build a brotherhood, and be nourished to your core.
January-June 2026
The Wisdom Circle emphasizes integrity, nourishment, and consciousness.
It is drawn from the systems of embodiment, breathwork, and Mussar, and informed by the teachings of such ground breaking men's work leaders as John Wineland, Robert Glover, and David Deida.
Here’s what’s included:
1. Monthly in-person circles in Redwood City
Held Wednesday evenings from 7-10pm PT (July 8, August 12, September 9, October 7, November 4, December 2)
2. Monthly online circles over Zoom
Held Wednesday afternoons from 12-1:30pm PT (July 29, August 26, September 23, October 21, November 18)
3. Access to a dedicated Signal space
For ongoing support and connection with Ted
A typical in-person session includes:
Embodied Practice
Movement & Breathwork to connect with your body and to express & move through your emotions
Check-Ins
Sharing challenges & celebrations with a circle of men who are here to lovingly challenge and support you
Focused Activities & Discussions
Learning tools and practices for building the life and relationships you most desire
Coaching
Receiving on-the-spot coaching from Ted and the collective Wisdom of the Circle.
Investment
$1,800 USD
*Application & interview are required for participation.
The Wisdom Circle is an incredible way to raise your bar and be held accountable for living an incredible life, surrounded by high quality men with world-class facilitation.
—David Clavens, Magician & Consultant
I now look for opportunities to use the tools I've learned to communicate with more intention to heal broken relationships, empathize with others and approach everything from a place of understanding and love. It also taught me to put more stock in myself, value myself more and believe that I can work to change things about myself that I don't like.
—A., Tech Executive
FAQs
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The Wisdom Circle is for any man who feels there is something more waiting to be explored in his life. Whether you’re new to men’s work, an experienced leader, or simply someone who’s never felt at ease in a group of men, you’re welcome here. This space is for men who are ready to step into deeper layers of themselves and their relationships.
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The most important requirements are:
A willingness to be vulnerable — to share your truths — the things that keep you up at night, the things that carry shame, the things that you want no one else to know.
And, a generosity of practice — being a nonjudgmental YES to whatever your brothers bring into the Circle
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Confidentiality is foundational in The Wisdom Circle. We set clear agreements around trust and respect from the start. By establishing boundaries and modeling vulnerability, I work to ensure each man feels secure in sharing his truth. It’s this atmosphere of trust that makes deep, meaningful work possible.
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Our first four cohorts have been an inspiring reflection of diversity. Men from a wide range of backgrounds join the circle, spanning different ages (20s-60s), ethnicities, countries of origin, professions, income levels, relationship structures and dynamics, sexual identities, religious traditions, and physical abilities. The group thrives on this diversity, as it enriches the experience for everyone.
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By being part of The Wisdom Circle, you’ll deepen your connection to your core purpose and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. You can expect to feel more grounded, present, and in tune with your desires. Many men find they walk away with a clearer sense of who they are and how they want to show up for their loved ones and their communities.
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Embodiment and breathwork help you become more aware of your body and emotions, allowing you to respond to life’s challenges with greater calm and presence. Mussar brings in the ethical and spiritual dimension, guiding you in cultivating virtues like power, compassion, patience, courage, and humility. Together, these practices create a well-rounded system that supports growth on all levels—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
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You may face some discomfort as you let go of old habits and step into a more authentic version of yourself. This could mean confronting beliefs that have held you back or trying new ways of relating that might feel awkward at first. But with challenge comes growth, and the group is here to support you as you push beyond your comfort zone.
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Outside of the bi-monthly Circles, I encourage you to stay engaged with practices like breathwork or journaling to support your growth. Our Signal thread offers ongoing connection, and checking in regularly can help deepen your experience. The extra time commitment depends on how much you want to invest, but the more effort you put in, the more rewarding the process will be.
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Life happens and missing a session can occur. While we may record the teaching portions, the deeper, personal work will not be recorded to protect confidentiality. Missing a session means missing that particular experience, but you will still have the support of the group and the chance to continue your journey in future sessions.