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Coaching for the Bedroom

Group Sessions & Workshops

A One Night Affair 
with Ted Riter

Playing At Your Edge

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Playing At Your EDGE

Can you feel that space in your heart that yearns for more?


More passion

More trust

More connection


We all have these yearnings


And yet...

many of us wake up one day and realize that these deep desires

are not being met

in our relationships.


We’ve numbed ourselves

We’ve conceded to routine

We’re comfortable

We’ve convinced ourselves that our relationships are overall pretty good


even as we feel a lack,

an emptiness,

and an ache.


The problem is…

in real life

(not on social media) 

no one taught us or modeled for us

how we could have more than a “pretty good” relationship,

how we could have more than being comfortable,

how we could live and love bigger,

how we could live and love deeper,

how we could live and love more.


Join us for 

A night of deep intimacy

A night of intoxicating polarity

A night of playing at your edge


Through solo, partnered, and group practice,

you will begin to retrain your nervous system

to experience





For details on the next

Playing At Your EDGE evenings in

the Bay Area, Los Angeles, Seattle, Boulder, and Austin

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Who is this for?

This is for anyone who wants more in their relationships - more love, more passion, more playfulness, more permission to be fully expressed.

What if I’m not in a relationship?

You do not need to be in a relationship to participate. Whether you see this as practice for your next relationship or for your own enjoyment, this evening will help you clarify your needs, play with your desires, and unabashedly experience yourself more fully.

What if I’m in a relationship but my partner doesn’t want to participate?

We’ve found that participating without your partner can be a real gift to both of you when you return more enlivened and having experienced what could be possible in your relationship.

What does “playing at your edge” look like?

We recognize that everyone’s edge looks different AND everyone’s edge will continue to expand and contract throughout life. In this program, your edge will be a bit beyond what is comfortable for you. Though we believe leaning into your own edge will provide the most growth in your relating journey, you will not be pushed, forced, or coerced to break your own boundaries. Instead, you will be empowered to identify and step towards your edge while honoring your own boundaries and the boundaries of others.

Is this a welcome place for LBGTQ+ participants?

This workshop focuses on the inherent masculine and feminine energies flowing within each of us and is not bound by gender or sexual identity. And…Ted has both personal and professional experience in the gender-fluid, non-heteronormative world.

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